Honor Our Honorifics
I AM NOT YOUR GODDESS
If you’ve ever had a kinky conversation with Me, you know how seriously I take My honorifics. The quickest way to piss Me off is to use any title other than ones at the top of your screen right now. I’m not Goddess Vee. I’m not Princess Vee. I’m not Mistress Vee. I’m Supreme. I’m your Queen.
This isn’t just Me being a hard-ass - It’s about attention and respect. One of the very first books I read when I began My journey as a Dominatrix was The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide To Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei Powers. In it, Mistress Lorelei describes several archetypes to illustrate the diversity of style, attitude and interests within FemDom. These archetypes include “The Amazon”, “The Mistress”, “The Queen” and “The Goddess”. She explains which attitudes, kinks, fetishes and expectations are usually attributed to each type of Domme, and encourages the reader to find the one that describes them the best (while obviously encouraging them to spin it their own way). As a baby Domme, I resonated heavily with the spiritual and etheral components of “The Goddess”, as well as the arrogant, elegant elements of “The Queen”. I expanded on them later.
As professional Dominants, We have the freedom to be whoever we want. We choose our own names, our titles, our aesthetic, and can be as picky as We please with the type of submissives We allow to interact with us. We’ve created our own little worlds that We rule as a dictatorship. When you decide to interact with Us, you understand that you are now operating under the laws of Our worlds - not your own. The honorifics that We’ve chosen reflect the type of submssive We want to attract, the way We want to be worshipped or interacted with, the kinks that We are more excited by, etc. They’re not just words - They mean something.
THERE IS NO DEFAULT
“Goddess” is not the default honorific. You think it is because you’re selfish, you’re lazy, you think with your groin, you don’t view Dominatrices as real professionals, or all of the above. Let Me give you a vanilla example.
You’re in college. Your new professor is a woman, and her name reads “Dr. Hayley Johnson, PhD” on the syllabus. When you need to call for her attention, what will you say? For most, here’s the thought process:
“Mrs. Johnson”? No - You’ve probably learned from general life experience that “Mrs.” is a risky choice if you’re not absolutely certain a woman married.
Okay, so “Ms. Johnson?” Still no. You recognize her as an authority figure, and understand that that the title “Dr” holds a different meaning than that of “Ms.”.
You use your eyes and, again, read the name on the syllabus. You say “Dr. Johnson”, safely assuming that the name she’s typed there is probably the name she wants to be called unless otherwise stated.
Now - Why don’t you use this line of thought when interacting with a Dominatrix? What’s your excuse? Don’t even answer - There isn’t one. When you throw your horny, desperate energy Our way without even bothering to read Our names, you are undermining the entire concept of Female Domination. You’re selfishly putting your arousal and your intense need to “serve” a Goddess/Mistress/Master/Whatever above Our protocols. Above our preferences. Above respect. Is that really the first impression you want to make?
I will never tolerate it. Reading is fundamental. I really suggest you do it more often.
