Toxic Girlfriend. Mean Mommy. Supreme Cult Leader.

MEET YOUR SUPREME.

“Is that weird?”, J asked.

“Probably. But I don't mind.”

My very first boyfriend had just uttered a secret he’d never told anyone else - he wanted to be embarrassed. More specifically, he wanted to be teased about his sexual limitations by hearing stories of a more talented man satisfying the one he loved. He promised he’d never get jealous. He promised he’d still love Me. He was a cuckold!

Well, we didn’t know the label back then. We were a young, curious couple about to jump down a rabbit hole that would change My life forever.

SENSUAL DISCIPLINE

My name is Vee, but you’ll use the titles “Supreme” or “Queen” when addressing Me. I specialize in sensual, psychological and financial domination, with My style being described as seductive, arrogant, bratty, strict, and occasionally maternal.

Feminine charm and sweet manipulation have always been My favorite weapons. Quick witted and sharp-tongued, I’ve never turned down a chance to rip an overinflated ego to shreds with brutal honesty, or plant seeds of doubt with carefully chosen, innocent observations. My kinky origins lie in cuckolding, tease and denial, SPH and verbal humiliation, making public outings and sultry dates My favorite setting to exploit your weaknesses. Though I enjoy the use of pain as a form of punishment and discipline, I am much more excited by the endurance of slow, sensual torture and sustained discomfort - That’s where the fun really begins. Few things come without sacrifice, and we must learn to step outside of our comfort zones if we wish to reap the rewards that lie there. Breathe, gaze into My eyes, and use My hypnotic voice as your anchor… with My influence, you can endure so much more than you think.

BLACK FEMME SUPREMACY

“The most disrespected person in America, is the Black woman. The most unprotected person in America, is the Black woman. The most neglected person in America, is the Black woman.” - Malcom X

I’ve always been an A student. B+ on a bad day. I was taught early and often what “acceptable” behavior consisted of, especially for people that looked like Me. I learned that I wasn't afforded the same number of mistakes as others. I learned that I had to not only succeed, but excel if I wanted to be seen. I learned that even if I did excel, I may not receive the credit I deserved. I learned that I needed to work twice as hard for half as much. They were painful, confusing and unfair lessons - but they were all true.

Then, the term Feminism was introduced to Me. Intersectionality. Critical Race Theory. Reparations.

So, I learned more.

I identify as a queer, Black Woman. Historically, My natural human rights and opportunities for advancement have been revoked, violated and twisted to serve the unworthy. Female and Financial Domination is how I reclaim the power and confidence stolen from Me long before I could fight back. Through it, I understand that I deserve to be praised, pampered, adored and worshipped. I deserve to be compensated for re-educating oppressors and providing the guilty and shameful a space to relieve their heavy hearts. I deserve every single dollar presented to Me - plus 400 years of tax and interest - because money is so much more than paper. Money is the physical manifestation of power, opportunity, and freedom. Therefore, true power exchange cannot occur without a redistribution of wealth.

RELIGION AND RITUAL

My family is Christian. Very Christian. My grandfathers on both sides are pastors, and I was raised a devout Baptist. I was dragged to Sunday school every week, prayed before bed, and never consumed a meal before thanking the Lord for placing it before Me. I seemed well-trained, but My mind always wandered. How could everything I found so interesting be so… sinful? So wrong? Was I evil, too?

I struggled for a long time. I researched. I read books. I sought out new teachers. I cried and apologized to God for researching and reading and looking for teachers. I was angry. Finally, I realized why things felt so wrong. Although I found value in elements like order, discipline, faith, and sacrifice, many of the stories and rules in this little book were nothing but a bastardization of rituals, philosophies and stories that existed far before. They were manipulated to keep Me obedient, docile and insecure. They were never meant for Me... but they could be a great tool for you.

As a Hoodoo and an observer of African Traditional Religions, My religious practices bleed heavily into My domination style and preferred service. BDSM is a powerful space that provides the opportunity for both spiritual enlightenment and pure, unashamed sexual deviancy via intense vulnerability. During My scenes, ritualistic worship, cult psychology, altar creation, prayer, mantras and other religious, spiritual and occult elements are used as submissive training and behavior modification tools.

KINKY INTERESTS

  • These are the things that excite My inner deviant. In no particular order…

    • Discreet Public Play

      There’s few things more exciting than knowing I have you wrapped around My little finger in a crowded room. Do they think I’m just your girlfriend? Your submissive little sugar baby? Do they know I’m wearing the key to your shock chastity cage, or that I hold the controls to the vibrating plug nestled comfortably in your ass?

    • Hierophilia, Sacrilege, Ritualistic Worship

      I was raised as a devout Christian - Baptist, in fact. I’ve seen first hand how ignorant and malleable blind worshippers can be, how much energy they waste following useless western rules. Fortunately, you’ve found a deity deserving of your devotion… one that actually embraces your perversions.

    • Forniphilia (Human Furniture)

      There’s something extra special about being an object. Dehumanizing, maybe… but has being a human been particularly honorable? Do you consider yourself necessary and useful? As an object with one clear function - footstool, chair, toilet - there’s no need to wonder.

    • Foot Worship

      Always beginning with a ritual foot bath, there’s nothing like a firm massage or a gentle suck to ease Me into relaxation. I love having My curvy, size 8 feet pampered.

    • Impact Play and Corporal punishment

      Caning, paddling, flogging, punching, slapping… There’s a lot of rage in this bloodline, and I’ll never turn down a cathartic experience.

    • Tease and Denial

      More denial than tease, but you already knew that, didn’t you? Oozing sensuality and divine femininity, it’d be foolish not to use it to My advantage. In online spaces, this includes rip-off play and censored content.

    • Conditioning / Gooning

      Pump and chant a mantra while you stare into My eyes. Or would you prefer to keep them closed while an MP3 rewires your brain? How about typing repeating lines until your eyes glaze over? Whatever the method, I’m quite skilled at implanting twisted urges and habits. Porn addiction, a craving for financial ruin, censorship and denial via pixel worship…

    • Sensory Deprivation

      Most people take their senses for granted. How often do you show gratitude for the beauty that graces your eyes? For the ability to listen to the click-clack of expensive heels? The use of blindfolds, masks, earplugs and headphones help keep you dazed, confused and suggestible.

    • Spit

      Anywhere. In your face, in your mouth, on the floor for you to lap up. Spitting has always been seen as the ultimate form of disrespect, and I love being able to do it freely. I’ll most likely spit in every session where it isn’t a hard limit.

    • Feminization

      Dress up, makeup, waxing, catwalks, dances - I love beautification and all things feminine! I’m also a licensed makeup artist and skincare specialist, and these skills ensure that My sissies and femboys are always the most stunning.

    • Financial Domination and Reparations

      Through FinDom, Supreme Queen Vee was born. I believe that purest form of submission is financial. Money is so much more than currency - it’s energy, it’s power, it’s opportunity, it’s safety, it’s comfort. For many, their thoughts, emotions, values, and even sense of self is tied to the amount of money they can hoard. Sacrificing your income - whether it be for bills, needs or luxuries - almost feels like giving up pieces of yourself. Why give those pieces to anyone but Me?

    • Bondage

    • Knife Play

    • Human Ashtray

    • Breathplay

    • Roleplay

    • Verbal and physical humiliation

    • Puppy Play

    • CFNM

    • Chastity

      Although I’ll still love to deny you in your cage or belt, the additional kinks will be what makes a chastity-focused scene exciting to Me. I particularly dislike virtual keyholding and chastity play.

    • JOI

      I don’t think I could care less what you do with your penis. Unless it’s painful - then I’m interested.

    • CEI

      I’m not nearly as interested in your fluids as I am in Mine. But if it does come out, you better make sure it goes right back in.

    • Shibari Rope Bondage

    • Erotic Hypnosis

    • Dollification

    • Invasive Knife Play / Scarification

    • Layered Bondage

    • Staples / Light Medical Play

  • Soft Limits

    • Blood

    • FTT

    Hard Limits

    • Penetrative sex and any vanilla sexual activity

    • Switching

    • Anti-black raceplay

    • Nudity from Me

    • Kissing

    • Cunnilingus and anilingus

    • Wresting

    • Sounding

    • Needles and heavy medical play

    • Breast feeding

    • Any activity deemed illegal by the law

VANILLA INTERESTS

  • Colors: Deep reds, dark green, gold, neutrals

    Foods: Seafood, fruit

    Places To Travel: Beaches, museums, spas and outdoor markets. Honorable mention: Anywhere above 70 degrees!

    Genres: True Crime, Drama, Thriller, Documentary

    Scents: Peppermint, Eucalyptus, Lavender, Sandalwood, Patchouli, Citrus, Earthy

    Gifts: Books, Lifestyle reimbursements, Pre-rolls, Cash, Albanese gummy bears

  • Doing these things and/or exhibiting these traits will put you on My shit list. Avoid them at all costs.

    • Calling Me “Goddess”, “Mistress”, “Princess”… any honorific other than the two you see at the top of this page.

    • Empty, broken promises and inconsistency. Speak less and act more.

    • Forgetfulness - Requiring reminders often. Grow up, take responsibility, and put a memory system in place.

    • Cheap, selfish, or self-serving attitudes. My presence in your life is a gift; not the other way around.

    • Bike Riding

    • Gaming (PC)

    • Astrology, Tarot and Other Occult Topics

    • Fashion & Fashion History

    • Photography & Filmmaking

    • True Crime

    • Cults & Religion

    • Gardening

    • Music Theory

  • Music

    Favorites are hard! Instead, here are a few artists that I keep in rotation:

    Beyonce, Eryn Allen Kane, Megan Thee Stallion, Jill Scott, Doechii, SZA, Tems, Nirvana, Larry June, Jazmine Sullivan, Paramore, Anderson.Paak, Tems

    TV / Movie

    It’s hard to keep My attention, so I don’t watch many movies and I only watch TV shows I can binge.

    The Office and The Lion King (1994) are My all-time favorite things to watch. Honorable mentions: Homecoming by Beyonce and Coco.

    • I’m a musician! I play several brass instruments, as well as percussion. My main instrument is the trumpet. I can read sheet music, too.

    • I’m an avid gamer, and once won a Guitar Hero tournament ! You can watch Me on Twitch, sometimes.

    • I’m a black belt in karate.

    • I’m a licensed esthetician. (That’s the lady who does your facials and waxing)

    • I have moderate ADHD and am on the autism spectrum. Mental health is always My priority, inside and outside of BDSM.

INTERVIEWS AND ARTICLES

  • Unapologetic Excellence: A BHM Exclusive With Queen Vee

    IWANTBLOG

    Rooted in generations of rebels, leaders, and visionaries, Queen Vee draws pride and strength from the “bottomless pool of tenacity” that defines black excellence.
    Queen Vee stands by the belief that kink is for everyone! With a voice of strength, authenticity, and unapologetic empowerment, she channels her creativity into a mission to normalize BDSM and alternative lifestyles.

    We welcome Serve Queen Vee to iWantBlog and thank her for graciously sharing her time and vision with us!

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  • Gooning Gods and Goddesses

    HUSTLER MAGAZINE

    I think we can all agree that orgasms are pretty fucking amazing. The feeling of release and ecstasy coursing through your body can’t be beat. Now imagine you’re watching your favorite XXX stars telling you exactly how to stroke your member, and that you can’t come! While it may sound like a torture created in hell, it’s a growing niche in the fetish community known as “gooning.” 

    We had the pleasure of interviewing some gooning professionals about what goes into teasing, denying and rewarding their fans in the best way possible.

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  • Mistress Blunt Interviews Supreme Queen Vee on Religion, Cults, BNWO, Race Play, and Video Games!

    Supreme Queen Vee and Mistress Danielle Blunt sit down together to discuss the intersection between BDSM play and the real-world power structures that dominate us all. We explore how cults and religions exert control, and cultivate submission. We discuss race play, BNWO, and how kink can weaponize guilt and discomfort to educate (and to explore taboo desires). Along the way, we share our own journeys—from how our own backgrounds inform our play to how we continue to grow as individuals along with our submissives. Join us for this conversation ranging from politics and sex to what video games we’re currently playing and our favorite villains!

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  • Supreme Queen Vee - Sell Your Soul

    DOMMEADDICTION

    She is Supreme Queen Vee… Collector of Reparations, Keeper of Souls, Mind-Melting Digital Succubus & Femdom Clip Vixen! Your very existence is justified by how you serve your Queen, and how obedient & loyal you remain. Now that your curiosity is piqued, it is time to kneel and crawl to Her feet. Supreme Queen Vee awaits your total submission before Her.

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“I love those who love Me, and those who seek Me find Me.”

— Proverbs 8:17